Tuesday, September 1, 2009

Children (of our own)

I have read somewhere that children (of our own) is the most precious gift to us. I agree. Totally agree.

Having children (of our own) give us purpose in life. Sa Pjoe once wrote in her fb, having kids gives her purpose in life, and at that very moment her purpose is to get some sleep. :P

Must be the classic case of sleep gone haywire, eh?

Often times i got this remarks from some people that i bragged too much about my kids. I talked nothing but about them, as if i am the only person in the world who have kids.

I am sorry if i bore you (or ever offended you with the subject) but they are my life, my world, my everything. However since then i decided not to keep in touch with that person, for she and me talk different language indeed.

Anyway, this morning, thanks to fb, i read this note from Nani (a friend from school)

Pagi sabtu, 29/08/2009, saya dapat sms dr seorang sahabat, Aedalianawati...(pasti ramai yang kenal)

"Nani, nujaid my baby is in icu now. Dr said we gonna lose him anytime. Pls pray 4 him"

Anak aeda, mengalami demam..kemudian sawan..mungkin kerana terlalu panas.
Dr terpaksa pengsankan dia supaya dia bertenang dan berehat. Tapi masalahnya paru2 dia mengalami kerosakan / jangkitan kuman. Suspect H1N1 juga. Setakat ni x banyak perkembangan sgt, semua org x dapat berbuat apa2 dan nujaid bergantung kepada bantuan sistem sepenuhnya.

Menitik air mata saya mendengar tangisan Aeda. Nujaid lahir selepas ID 20 hari. Pasti Aeda sedang melalui saat manis melayan keletah anaknya, apatah lagi nujaid baru pandai berjalan. Tiba-tiba seakan hampir kehilangan begitu saja.

Sama-samalah kita doakan Nujaid yang terbaik....hanya Allah yang tahu. Semoga Aeda tabah melalui hari-hari getir sebagai seorang ibu.

Sesungguhnya tiada satu apapun di dunia ini milik kita. Semuanya pinjaman semata-mata.

I asked for Aeda's phone number. 15 minutes later i checked her notes again to get the number, and this is what i saw.

Noorharnani Mohd Sarkawi
Noorharnani Mohd Sarkawi
Nujaid, anak aeda dah x de....
30 saat yang lalu

I was speechless.

It is true, To Allah we come from, to Him we return.

I hope Aeda will be strong. I don't know if i am when the time comes.

9 comments:

Arin said...

al fatihah..sebak dada aku membaca entry nih..

Masayu Ahmad said...

Al-Fatihah

azura said...

wawa, aku pun pagi td nak buat entry pasal kisah ni, tapi after call aeda, n tau anak dia dh takde, aku dh tak tau nak tulis apa..

tak dpt bayang mcm mana kalau aku kt tmpt dia..

Al-fatihah untuk si kecil Nujaid

Wawa said...

Arin, kita ada anak, so sedikit sebanyak dpaat relate kan. jangan kata naak, semua ornag tak mahu kehilangan orang tersayang kan.

Pn Masayu, kirimkan lah doa untuk arwah, dan juga untuk kita semua. Moga kita tabah.

Azura, aku sms dia tadi. Aku tak sanggup nak call.

Macam-macam cara ujian Allah kan pada kita semua.

Betul kata Nani, dunia ini pinjaman sahaja.

Adila said...

bum, aku nak tinggal komen, tapi takut panjang sangat. check out my latest post k. al fatihah.

Wawa said...

Adiel, a post nicely written.

aku sure kalau Aeda boleh baca, she would appreciate the post.

Bagus untuk renungan kita jua.

:)

Len Bkn Nama Sebenar said...

innalillah..
ya Allah besarnya dugaan aeda kna hadapi..

memang bila dh jadi parents, anak la keutamaan.. aku hari tu ada incident cemas.. masa tgh pantang ni, dok kat katil sambil hubby serving food, baby tidur kat sebelah.. tetiba anak sedara sorg ni (2 yrs old btw) panjat katil dok xcited nak wat apa tah.. x nampak baby tros mcm nak pijak.. kaki dah kat dada si khadeeja.. aku mjerit trus bingkas nk bgn sakit2 tu pn.. sib baik smpt halang dia b4 betul2 pijak.. pastu aku terus nangis.. dok terbayang mcm mana susah n sakit nak kluarkan dia.. isk2 dh le x smp 10 hari lg umur dia ms tu.. ngeri tul..

Wawa said...

kalau ada budak lain kena extra cautious.

budak2 bukan paham apa-apa kan.

berat kan dugaan menimpa kawan aku tu. petang tadi dok main-main dgn sawda terus aku teringat aeda.

Kalau tak silap anak dia sebaya sawda je. Mesti terbayang-bayang keletah anak.

Ya Allah, berat mata memandang, lebih berat bahu memikul.

Anne said...

Alfatihah...

saya kelu sangat.